Monday, September 17, 2007

Arguement(s)

You might hear this before:
"Arguement is a tool to make your relationship last longer and happier..."
Do you agree with this statement?
I don't.
It's simply because arguement is making your relationship at risk.
It's not a tool to prolong a relationship.
I do agree that mild arguement may boost the relationship to a higher level of trust .
However, it may trigger off any unpleasant feeling forthe bobth parties.
Once one party starts to defense him- or herself, no-so-mild arguement will take place.
This will end up with a real arguement which can lead to tragedy.
So, mild arguement play the role as a precursor of a breaking-up.
You can have a try if you are smart in playing with words.
If you are still a novice in boy-girl relationship, you better don't take the chance.
You can practise on this skill for the future when you are having a girl or boy friend.
It's because practice makes perfect.
Do trust me because I saw too many couples have broken up due to arguements in which they share no idea at all.

("v")

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