情感

在爱情的道路上，没有对错。
当甲人对乙人说:“ 你做错了。。。”
其实，甲人并不了解，乙人对情感的看法。
在感情上很难分出对错，只能够说处理不当。
但，在甲人的眼里，乙人是错的。
人与人的情感，需要花很多时间，才能够了解。
可是，时间的长短，并不能保证能够彻底地了解情感。
当一个人已经彻底了解情感后，又必需花上好一阵子的时间，学习如何处理情感。
情感的处理，因人而异。
有的人，很幸运，初恋到结婚，都平淡无事。
有的人，运气还不赖，初恋到结婚，很少跌倒。
有的人，运气败坏，初恋到结婚，一路上跌跌撞撞，身体已没毫无损伤的地方。
有的人，学习精神佳，可是偏偏不会好好地处理情感。
有的人，并没有认真学习，但，却能凡事处理恰当。
情感，是混合了运气和学习的事情。
丙人与丁人的故事，又是怎样的呢?
你和你的另一半，在处理情感时，达到共识吗?

小佩佩

感觉又回来了。。。

听说，最近感觉已消失。。。
可是，为何强烈的感觉又一点点地从裂缝中，慢慢地侵蚀我的心呢?
感觉好像回到从前，回到小鹿乱撞的时候。。。
好享受这种感觉。。。
人，总是在失去后，才懂得珍惜。。。
每当这种感觉回来时，真的好想用自己的双手把它捉紧，慢慢地享受这种得来不易的感觉。。。
但，现实太残酷了，感觉没了就是没了，也没办法回到过去。。。
戏里头的故事，回到从前，改变事情原来的结果，只是一种催眠的手法，让我们堕入一个自我陶醉的环境。。。
戏如人生，应该是由此而来的吧。。。
自我陶醉，自我催眠，都会使失去了的感觉，好像才擦身而过，享受不已。。。
感觉回来了，是真的吗?
消失了的感觉，又真的不能再一次享受吗?
再一次享受那种感觉时，裂痕会出现吗?
裂痕出现了，又能够补救吗?
感觉，好抽象的东西。。。
摸不着，看不到。。。
只能凭自己的心去感受。。。
开心的感觉，令人神采飞扬。。。
伤心的感觉，令人失去神采。。。
形容词，往往会偏向负面的。。。
就像遗憾，别离，痛心，舍不得。。。
真面的形容词，少之又少。。。
感觉，令人又爱又恨。。。
每当美好的感觉来临时，记得把它牢牢地捉紧。。。
溜走了的感觉，每回想起，已是曾经。。。

小佩佩

XPP

XPP is my nickname...
X - Xiao
P - Pei
P - Pei
all my friends call me ah pei...
when i was young, my parents and relatives liked to call me pei pei...
now, ah pei is more appropriate...
there is another nickname which only a person can use...
a very special person in my life...
he calls me XP...
and, of course, in turn, i call him...
my Little Xean Xean...
December 13th, 2003...
a date to remember...
October 6th...
always be a special date in my life...
libra...
a horoscope which is a perfect match of aquarius...
what do you think?
("v")

Gay

gay,
just like lesbian,
layman thinks it's abnormal,
it's an illness,
psychologists think it's a disorder,
well,
it isn't,
it's just a different way of expressing love,
why is it people like to claim it as abnormal when majority of the people do not show it?
so think of the uniqueness of everyone,
no one is the same in this world,
respect the uniqueness,
respect the dignity,
treat everyone the same.

Lesbian

lesbian,
layman always thinks it's a disorder,
it happens because of psychological problem(s),
i don't think so,
let's think about when a man was trapped inside a woman's body,
how should the reaction be?
people like to call them abnormal,
but,
do be sincere and concerned,
it's not a fault,
repsect everyone's dignity is the most important matter,
do feel empathised to lesbians,
they are human-being as well.

Love

love,
happens when a person meets another person,
with an unidentifiable feeling,
the feeling is comfort,
sweet,
always in one's mind,
driving one to be crazy,
losing rational thinking & cognition,
layman always thinks that,
love happens between two persons in the opposite sex,
how about lesbians and gays?
they are falling in love as well,
love,
happens to everyone,
either to the opposite sex,
or within the same sex,
psychologist may say that lesbians and gays are abnormal,
they gave gender identity disorder,
love,
just happens to anyone,
without any signal,
or indication,
love,
is complicated,
when a person falls into it,
then the person will know,
love,
is not a bibg deal,
just a matter of expressing a person's feeling,
the unidentifiable feeling.